I love you BUT!

I really love you but I wish you try to be less nervous!

I love you sweetie so much but I need you to be more romantic!

LOVE and BUT can never be gathered in the same sentence. Love must be unconditional without the need to change your spouse continuously. Nobody is perfect and sure we all have imperfections thus, it doesn’t make sense to marry someone and then try to change him/her to meet our expectations.

Sure that doesn’t include inappropriate behaviors but I'm talking about normal imperfections such as not being romantic, getting easily nervous and stuff like that. People never evaluate the negative consequences that might have due to their continuous trials to change their partners!

I'm not saying you stop all your trials to change your partner but while trying you have to agree with yourself that you still love your partner anyway whether he changed or not. Also, you have to make your trials soft, gentle, creative and not continuous. One last thing, you can never change all your partner’s imperfections so choose your battles well!